Anyways, Army Boy and I have decided to give our marriage another try. We discovered we still care for each other and want to try to put aside all the hurt and bitterness and move ahead together to face our future. Of course I had to admit that everything was my fault and since I'm sure that is the case, I had no problem taking complete culpability.
Okay, after you've picked yourself up off the floor from laughing or have screamed at your computer and said OMG WTF!!!, I hope you know that's a load of crap, just like my marriage for the last few years. Army Boy and I have been trying to work out a settlement.* I had to shut the blog down for a while. He screamed at me that I could leave it up but I'm pretty sure that wasn't how he truly felt. I'm getting better at knowing when he's lying. He did mention he wanted a chance to tell his own side of the story so maybe I'll have a link to Army Boy's blog in a future post. Coming up with a name for that would be super fun, we should have a contest.
* I believe we have a settlement and divorce papers should be arriving to a mailbox near me soon. I guess I'm supposed to be happy, the terms are pretty much everything that I wanted. Well, originally I had wanted a husband who was faithful and not a douchebag but I've learned you can't have everything in life so you gotta take what you can get and create your own happiness.
* I believe we have a settlement and divorce papers should be arriving to a mailbox near me soon. I guess I'm supposed to be happy, the terms are pretty much everything that I wanted. Well, originally I had wanted a husband who was faithful and not a douchebag but I've learned you can't have everything in life so you gotta take what you can get and create your own happiness.
Army Boy probably won't be thrilled that I turned my blog back on. But my response to that is, you still have your whore, I still have my blog. I'm told that the whore might read the blog occasionally. <Hi Whore! I have something special on my Christmas list for a homewrecking piece of crap.> I find it hysterical to imagine her reading some of these posts and thinking what a horrible soon-to-be-ex wife I am, no wonder Army Boy cheated on me. You can rationalize anything in your own mind if you're delusional enough. I have fantasized about texting her once the divorce is final and congratulating her on the 'prize' she's won but why bother? I'm not going to waste any more time thinking about the likes of her (other than laughing maybe). I'm really starting to believe that I'm going to be the winner in all of this. Like Kellie Pickler's song says, 'But I've been told that a cheater is always a cheater, So I've got my pride and she's got you.'
I'm going to do my best to transition from a betrayed spouse to just an ex-spouse. Yup, I'll be divorced which is never what I wanted but you know what, I've got my kids, my family, my health, a slimmer body, my dog, a career and I'm going to be counting my blessings.... I might slip into the bitter is better role periodically but I'm Moving On is going to be my mantra now.
I'm going to do my best to transition from a betrayed spouse to just an ex-spouse. Yup, I'll be divorced which is never what I wanted but you know what, I've got my kids, my family, my health, a slimmer body, my dog, a career and I'm going to be counting my blessings.... I might slip into the bitter is better role periodically but I'm Moving On is going to be my mantra now.
His girlfriend is a reader of it apparently. He found it bookmarked on her tablet. LMAO! He said that I could lose custody of my kids because of a case in MA, blah, blah, blah. Whatever, I know that's not true but it was easier to make it private... for now at least. I'm trying to get over the whole thing and don't want to keep stewing over the whole things. He's a disturbed individual, period.
ReplyDeleteI love that the GF was reading it. Sorry you had to go undercover for awhile. Get those signed papers and do and say whatever the fuck you want.
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So glad you are back at the blogging! I missed you!
ReplyDeleteI am so glad you are backed. I was missing reading your blog and felt badly that I got blocked .... was thinking you maybe thought I was part of Army Boy's camp. Congratulations on your new official journey!
ReplyDeleteI'm laughing at the idea that Army Boy has an opinion about 'two faced'. Really? I don't think I've ever heard such irony in two words. And the GF. I hope she reads here just how much she's thought of, low morals, disordered, stupid. I can't think enough words to describe the amoral woman who thinks she has it going on.
ReplyDeleteA guy who would screw his own mother over? GF really should see her future here.
You deserve so much more than these two losers K. Hope all works out well for you.
I would also like to add that as a CPA she should be very careful of her own reputation. Does she not know that people don't like liars and cheaters as their accountants? as a general rule.
DeleteWere I to find that my accountant had this kind of mind set I would not be thrilled. It's not Amry Boy alone who needs to make a living based on their so called 'reputation'.
I was worried about you...glad to see it was just a momentary break for Army Boy Insanity........I feel your pain there.
ReplyDeleteGlad to see you back, and that things are finalized so you can put it all behind you.
ReplyDeleteI have to wonder too how did she find it????
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