I do not blame the other woman for the start of the affair. I'm sure my husband charmed his way into her affections. She was desperate and lonely and he was showering her with compliments. He kept it a secret I'm sure that he was already bound by the vows of marriage. But once she found out that he had a wife and children, she 'cared for him too much to let him go'. She was too delusional to see that the man she cared for didn't even exist. A relationship begun in deception and lies only has one future and it's not happily ever after. No, I don't blame her for the start of the affair but I do blame her for not ending it. For not having enough morals and values and self-esteem to say, "This is just wrong and I don't want to be a part of it." For not thinking of the family that she is having a share in destroying. The innocent children that she is hurting for hopes of fulfilling her own empty dreams.
Men are weak and selfish creatures. I hold women to a higher standard. We carry our children inside of us for nine months. We are the nourishers and the caregivers. For every one good father, I will show you forty good mothers. We raise the next generation and if we can't do it with a higher grace than these weak and selfish men, I pity the future that we have. The sisterhood of women should be stronger than it is. If men are such simple creatures swayed by sex and self indulgences, it's up to women to be the strong ones and say no this is not right. But unfortunately 'love' is blind and stupid. And of course it's true love and you're going to save him from his harpy of a wife. You will heal his poor tortured soul and offer him comfort from a so-called bad marriage.
If you don't have the strength to turn him away, I wish you a future of heartbreak like you have caused me and my children. Since history has a habit of repeating itself, I know I won't have to wait long.
It's just sick that they carry on with their behaviors regardless of who it hurts. I will never be able to understand it but I'm a good person and they are not and that is the difference.
ReplyDeleteYou hit the nail on the head when you said, "The sisterhood of women should be stronger than it is."
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